My "BGC" (Big Girl Camera) just got upgraded. I went from a Nikon D3100 to a Nikon D7000...It.is.amazing.
Lenses:
1. The D7000 came with the 18-105mm f/3.5-5.6 AF-S DX VR ED Nikkor Lens and I have been using that a lot.
2. My prime lens is the Nikon 35mm f/1.8G AF-S DX Lens for Nikon Digital SLR Cameras
3. I kept the zoom lens that came with my D3100. It is a kit lens but will do for now. It is the Nikon 55-200mm f/4-5.6G ED IF AF-S DX VR [Vibration Reduction] Nikkor Zoom Lens
Speedlight:
YONGNUO YN560 Flash Speedlite Adjustable Flash Speedlite Hot Shoe Bounce Flash for Canon Nikon Pentax Olympus, Samsung Cameras
Hot Shoe Flash Trigger Receiver
CowboyStudio NPT-04, 4 Channel Wireless Hot Shoe Flash Trigger Receiver
Wireless Remote
Disc Reflector